For whatsoever is born of God overcometh the world: and this is the victory that overcometh the world, even our faith ~ 1 John 5:4.

Introduction:

Victory is very sweet. Defeat can be a very bitter poison. God is not glorified when you live as a victim of past experiences or of present circumstances. Happily, victory is a uniform banner of every new creation man (1John 5:4).

Rejecting or ignoring covenant victory in Christ Jesus should never be an option. It could be tantamount to a high spiritual crime of personal injury and a great disservice to God’s kingdom. No one can rule from a bottom-level position, neither can anyone call the shots while wriggling, grieving and sulking under the circumstances.

Knowing this above, Satan so virulently attacks the saints to make us more vulnerable to defeat, especially in this end-time, just like any footballer could be on the field of play at “injury time” (1Peter 4:7). He is always looking for a leading light to dim, or turn outrightly into darkness. May you never fall his prey in Jesus’ Name. Amen.

Generally, the devil lacks appeal to any sensible mind, especially in his casts of wickedness. Therefore, whenever he targets a destiny for destruction, he often appears in subtleties and disguises – as an angel of light. But, once he discovers that his chances are slim to succeed this way, he wears the garb of a roaring lion, and uses force, intimidation and harassments.

The great piece of good news here is that it is not everyone that the devil can swallow. Those who are sober, focused, vigilant and prayerful are swallow-proof against him (1Peter 5:8). Whenever the devil is resisted, he flees (James 4:7).

The devil is a defeated foe and he knows it. Each time you resist him, he assumes you know it too and he flees. The devil normally chickens out before any believer who knows his or her right in Christ and walks in righteousness. And, any believer who can exercise a steadfast, pure and firm faith in Christ can overpower the devil.

Ours is total victory over sin, Satan, the world and the flesh through faith. However, this faith has to be built in Christ and through Christ alone. Jesus is the only firm foundation, all other ground is sinking sand.

Guaranteeing Your Faith In Christ Alone

Pure faith in Christ can be built by taking your place in the Word of God (Roman 10:17)! You couldn’t determine how and where you were born, but you can choose how you live and die if you place your focus on God’s Word.

We have been redeemed from: troubles (Psalms 25:22); death (Hosea 13:14); sins (Titus 2:14); curses (Galatian 3:13); the enemies (Luke 1:74); afflictions (Acts 7:10); powers of darkness (Colossians 1:13); the wrath to come (1Thessalonians 1:10). This is the truth of our case from the standpoint of God’s Word, no matter the facts of our present experiences.

Your faith in the Word is very pertinent to what you get on earth. The major difference between victors and victims as well as successes and failures is in their focus on the truth of God’s Word, and their heavenly tasks at hand (Hebrews 12:1-4).

Whenever you determine to boldly occupy your place in dominion, God stands on your side and even your simple adventures turn to brilliant achievements. But, once the devil breaks your focus, you become a cheap victim!

Working Our Ways Back To The Redemption Platform

From the foregoing, no doubt, all Christians have been delivered (Colossians 1:13). But, not all Christians are enjoying the full benefits of the redemption because of three major culprits, namely: unbelief, ignorance and ungodliness. If we’re to make progress and enjoy our redemptive benefits to their fullest ranks, we must skillfully engage the veritable tools of the covenant to collar those major culprits.

Firstly, in order to overcome unbelief, you must believe in your Bible identity. Most of our human problems are actually festered by our identity crisis, whereby we fail to discover our real roots in God and firmly believe in it. See, if you don’t know where you are coming from, you may never know where you are going.

Your true origin does not depend upon your color, gender, educational attainments, current achievements, and so on. Those may tell only a bit about you, but never so much about who you really are and where you are actually going.

Your actual origin is in Christ in God (Matthew 1:1). You must be very conscious of this fact: the devil is very helpless in the face of its reality. Discover your dignity and begin to enjoy your status as a victor through faith in Christ (Galatian 3:14).

Secondly, ignorance fades into oblivion when you embrace the beautiful provisions of your new birth in Christ Jesus. You were born again to reign again through Christ (Romans 5:17). You were redeemed to be enriched, and you were enriched to enrich the world around you ((Galatians 3:13-14).

Ignorance is highly punishable in the realm of the spirit (Hosea 4:6; 6:6; 2 Chronicles 15:3,5-6; Job 36:12; Isaiah 5:13; 2 Timothy 3:16). Knowledge enhances fulfilled destiny and remarkable exploits. We were neither called to sweat, nor saved to struggle. It is our very costly disease of ignorance that prolongs stress.

For the avoidance of doubt, the curse of the law refers to the consequences which the execution of the law would inflict upon the law breakers, which include: death, humiliation, sicknesses, poverty, defeat, unfruitfulness, etc. (Deuteronomy 28:15-45). On the other hand, the blessings of Abraham talks of the blessings which Abraham enjoyed through justification: exaltation, fruitfulness, good health, prosperity, being head and not a tail etc.

The believers in Christ are treated to the fullness of the blessings of the seed of Abraham (Romans 4:16). But, all those who refuse Jesus Christ today are yet dwelling under the curse (Matthew 27:25). If you know this truth, happy are you if you act upon it accordingly.

Obedience to the commandments of God is the antidote to the spirit of ungodliness. Ungodliness is a satanic tool that robs men of the grace that sustains progress, but obedience empowers their covenant progress. Obedience was the badge of Abraham, Moses and David. Even Jesus Christ showed us that deadly obedience always paves the way to eternal honor (Philippians 2:5-10).

Obedience means complying with divine orders (Jeremiah 7:23; Acts 5:29). Yes, the Lord is a very loving Redeemer, but to displease Him through a lifestyle of disobedience may be a very costly misadventure. All who violate the laws of God are exposed to its penalties (Galatian 3:10).

Meanwhile, every error defeated by discipline paves a way for great victories. Today, as you stay hooked to God and His royal provisions, may you enjoy a fulfilled destiny round-about, and experience victory in all your vocations, in Jesus Name. Amen. Happy Sunday!

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Bishop Taiwo Akinola,

Rhema Christian Church,

Otta, Ogun State, Nigeria.

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Imagine a situation in which you won big in the lottery. Tens of billions of dollars. The rich and the hoi polloi came to celebrate with you. But when the money was paid, it turned out to be fake. You were paid with counterfeit money. How would you feel?

Or you got a big job in a high-flying company. You were convinced that you were finally set for life. But when you were paid at the end of the month, you were paid with counterfeit money. How would you react?

Nobody likes counterfeit money. It might look like the original, but it is fake. If you try to use it to buy something, it is readily rejected. Nobody likes counterfeits. Everyone prefers the originals. We only ended up with the counterfeit because we did not know it was counterfeit.

Counterfeits are getting better and better. But no matter how like the original a counterfeit can be, it is still a counterfeit. The original is the real McCoy.

Counterfactual Wisdom

Trust the Bible to confound our intellect. Trust God to dazzle us with the counterfactual. God reveals that men prefer the counterfeit life to the real life.

God gave men a choice between the original and the counterfeit. Guess what happened? We preferred the counterfeit. What was our problem? We did not know the original. We thought the counterfeit was the original.

The devil asked Eve: “‘Has God indeed said, ‘You shall not eat of every tree of the garden?’ And the woman said to the serpent, ‘We may eat the fruit of the trees of the garden; but of the fruit of the tree which is in the midst of the garden, God has said, ‘You shall not eat it, nor shall you touch it, lest you die.’ Then the serpent said to the woman, ‘You will not surely die. For God knows that in the day you eat of it, your eyes will be opened, and you will be like God, knowing good and evil.” (Genesis 3:1-5).

Stealing the Counterfeit

The robber entered the bank in the dead of night. But all he stole was counterfeit money.

Eve wanted eternal life. But she already had it. The devil fooled her into trading the original for the counterfeit. She decided to steal the counterfeit, not knowing she already had the original.

Moses said to Israel: “I call heaven and earth as witnesses today against you, that I have set before you life and death, blessing and cursing; therefore, choose life, that both you and your descendants may live.” (Deuteronomy 30:19).

Moses said to choose between the life that leads to life and the life that leads to death. But make sure you choose the one that leads to life, so that both you and your descendants may live. However, the Israelites chose death. They thought death was life.

Choosing Counterfeits

So, why are we sold on the counterfeit life? Why do we prefer the counterfeit life to the original life? The counterfeit is a shiny object. It is glamorous. It is vainglorious. It appeals to the sinful flesh. It is advertised everywhere at the instance of the prince of the power of the air.

It is the life of the rich and the powerful. It is showcased by the millionaires and the billionaires. It is the pride of the pop stars, the rock stars, and the movie stars. It is extolled by presidents, senators, and politicians. It is the boast of the mega-pastors in the mega-churches.

It entails living in big mansions. Driving fast and expensive sports cars. Owning airplanes and jet-setting all over the world. Wearing expensive designer clothes. Sporting luxurious jewelries and watches. Going to parties and spraying money. Hosting extravagant events for those of timbre and the calibre. Having many wives and mistresses.

The chief exponent of this ostentatious lifestyle in the scriptures is Solomon, and his verdict is that it amounts to nothing: 

“I made my works great, I built myself houses, and planted myself vineyards. I made myself gardens and orchards, and I planted all kinds of fruit trees in them. I made myself water pools from which to water the growing trees of the grove. I acquired male and female servants, and had servants born in my house. Yes, I had greater possessions of herds and flocks than all who were in Jerusalem before me. I also gathered for myself silver and gold and the special treasures of kings and of the provinces. Then I looked on all the works that my hands had done and on the labour in which I had toiled; and indeed, all was vanity and grasping for the wind.” (Ecclesiastes 2:4-8/11).

Spirit and Truth

Those who live the true life do not worship God on the mountains of Kilimanjaro. They do not build cathedrals with supermarkets and helipads. They do not drive around in a cortege of cars and cruise about in private jets in the name of evangelism. They do not worship God on street corners. Neither do they worship God outwardly to the praise of men. They worship God in their heart of hearts. 

Paul describes them in the following manner. He says: “We are the circumcision, who worship God in the Spirit, rejoice in Christ Jesus, and have no confidence in the flesh.” (Philippians 3:3).

These true worshippers do not require praise or spiritual titles from men. They do not ask men to call them Daddy, Pastor, Your Eminence. They seek the approval of God and not the approval of men. They seek the face of God and not His hands. They do not worship God with men’s hands by paying tithes and by giving fat cat offerings. The Lord knows we are His.

Jesus says: “These people draw near to Me with their mouth, and honour Me with their lips, but their heart is far from Me. And in vain they worship Me, teaching as doctrines the commandments of men.” (Matthew 15:8-9).

True Life

Those who live the true life do not rejoice in their ships like the Chaldeans. They do not rejoice in their wealth, their houses, their limousines, their pedigrees, or their social statuses. They do not rejoice in their marriages, children, abilities, or even their achievements and successes. They only rejoice in what Jesus has done.

They rejoice in His finished work on the cross. They rejoice in the ransom He paid for us. They rejoice that, because of Jesus, they are now sons of the living God. They rejoice that they have been gifted with eternal life. They rejoice that their names are written in heaven.

They rejoice that they are now: “A chosen generation, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, (God’s) own special people, that (we) may proclaim the praises of Him who called us out of darkness into His marvelous light; who once were not a people but are now the people of God, who had not obtained mercy but now have obtained mercy.” (1 Peter 2:9-10).

They only rejoice in Christ Jesus in the knowledge that the glories of this world are all counterfeit. For all the riches of the world cannot redeem even one single soul.

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Ever been in a room and noticed that one person who, without uttering a word, commands the respect of everyone around them?

Chances are, you’ve just spotted someone who exhibits certain behaviors that naturally earn them admiration.

These behaviors may seem subtle or even insignificant to some, but they can have a powerful impact on how others perceive them.

Let’s delve into these little nuances and highlight 10 such behaviors that can significantly boost your respect quotient in social settings.

These are simple yet effective habits that anyone can incorporate into their daily interactions.

1. Listening Actively

Ever noticed how some people just have this knack for making you feel heard? That’s because they’re practicing active listening, one of the most respected behaviors in any social setting.

Active listeners don’t just hear; they focus on understanding what the other person is saying. They make eye contact, nod in acknowledgment, and respond appropriately. This shows that they value the speaker’s thoughts and opinions.

Active listening is a skill that doesn’t come naturally to everyone. But with practice, anyone can learn to be an attentive listener.

Not only does active listening help you understand others better, it also gives them the respect and attention they deserve. And that’s a surefire way to earn their respect in return.

When you’re in a conversation, try to really listen – not just to respond, but to understand. You may be surprised at how much people appreciate this simple behavior.

2. Being Honest

Let me share a personal anecdote to underscore the importance of this behavior. A few years back, I was working on a project with a tight deadline. Despite my best efforts, I realized I would not be able to deliver on time.

I had two options: I could either fake progress and hope for the best, or be upfront about the situation and risk disappointing my team.

I chose honesty. I explained the situation, shared my reasons and asked for a deadline extension. To my surprise, not only did my team appreciate my transparency, but they also chipped in to help where they could.

This incident reinforced to me that honesty truly is the best policy. It builds trust, shows integrity, and earns respect.

People respect those who have the courage to speak the truth, even when it’s uncomfortable. So, don’t shy away from honesty – it’s a behavior that commands respect.

3. Showing Empathy

In a world where everyone is busy with their own lives, showing empathy can make a big difference.

Empathy is the ability to understand and share the feelings of others. It’s about putting yourself in someone else’s shoes and viewing the world from their perspective.

When you show empathy, you’re telling others that their feelings matter. You’re showing that you care. And this is a behavior that people deeply respect.

It could be as simple as comforting a friend going through a tough time, or as significant as standing up for someone when they’re being treated unfairly. Each act of empathy strengthens your relationships and earns you respect.

When someone shares their feelings or experiences with you, try to truly understand their perspective. Your empathy might just make their day a bit better, while also earning you their respect.

4. Being Consistent

Consistency is one of the key elements of earning respect. It’s about saying what you mean and meaning what you say. And it’s not just about your words, but also your actions.

You see, humans are creatures of habit. We find comfort in predictability. A research study from Duke University found that habits, those unthinking, automatic behaviors, account for about 40 percent of our daily activities.

That’s why when someone is consistent in their behavior, they become reliable and trustworthy in the eyes of others. Whether it’s consistently meeting deadlines at work, or consistently being there for a friend in need, it’s this reliability that earns respect.

Strive to be consistent in your words and actions. It might require discipline and integrity, but the respect you’ll earn will be worth it.

5. Expressing Gratitude

In the hustle and bustle of life, it’s easy to forget the importance of expressing gratitude. But a simple “thank you” can go a long way in earning respect.

Gratitude is more than just good manners. It’s an expression of appreciation, a recognition of the goodness in our lives. It’s about acknowledging the efforts of others, no matter how big or small.

When you express gratitude, you’re telling others that you don’t take their efforts for granted. This can make them feel valued and appreciated, which in turn earns you their respect.

Don’t hesitate to say “thank you” when someone does something for you. It’s a small gesture that carries a lot of weight. And remember, it’s not just about expressing gratitude for big things, but also for the little things in everyday life.

A heartfelt “thank you” can brighten someone’s day and earn you their respect in return.

6. Valuing Time

Time is one of the most precious resources, and those who respect it are often respected in return.

Being punctual, meeting deadlines, and valuing others’ time are all ways of showing respect for time. These behaviors indicate that you respect not only your own commitments but also the commitments of others.

On the flip side, being perpetually late or frequently rescheduling meetings can come off as disrespectful. It can send a message that you consider your time more important than that of others.

So, make it a point to be on time, honor your commitments, and respect others’ time. This habit will not only help you be more productive but also earn you respect from those around you.

By valuing time, you’re essentially valuing life itself. And that’s a behavior that commands respect.

7. Practicing Humility

In a world that often equates success with arrogance, practicing humility is a refreshing and respected behavior.

Humility is not about downplaying your achievements or being self-deprecating. It’s about recognizing your strengths without boasting and acknowledging your weaknesses without shame.

A humble person understands that no matter how accomplished they are, there’s always something to learn from others. They don’t let their ego get in the way of their growth.

Practicing humility also means giving credit where it’s due. Acknowledging the contributions of others and celebrating their success shows that you value teamwork and are secure in your own abilities.

Strive to be humble. It’s a behavior that not only makes you more approachable but also earns you respect from those around you.

8. Keeping Promises

Keeping promises may seem like a basic expectation, but it’s a behavior that can significantly boost respect for you.

When you make a promise, you’re making a commitment. And when you follow through on that commitment, you’re showing that your words have weight.

People who keep promises are perceived as more trustworthy and reliable. Moreover, this behavior can improve relationships and enhance social bonds.

Whether it’s a promise to help a friend move or a commitment to meet a work deadline, make sure to follow through. Your reliability will earn you respect from those around you.

9. Showing Kindness

There was a time when I was going through a rough phase, feeling low and lost. During that time, a friend of mine, without any prompts, surprised me with a small care package. It was a simple act of kindness, but it meant the world to me.

Kindness has the power to transform lives. It’s not just about grand gestures; even small acts of kindness can have a big impact. It could be as simple as offering your seat to someone on the bus or helping a colleague with their workload.

Showing kindness is a sign of strength, not weakness. It demonstrates that you are considerate, compassionate, and empathetic – qualities that are highly respected.

Be kind whenever possible. And remember, it’s always possible.

10. Being Authentic

Above all else, being authentic is the most respected behavior. Authenticity is about being true to yourself, standing up for your beliefs, and living in alignment with your values.

Authenticity can’t be faked. People can sense when you’re being genuine and when you’re just putting on a facade. And there’s nothing more respectable than someone who is comfortable in their own skin, who doesn’t feel the need to pretend to be someone they’re not.

Let your words reflect your thoughts, and your actions reflect your words. Remember, the respect you earn by being true to yourself is the most valuable respect of all.

HackSpirit

After months of campaigns and preparations by the various stakeholders, voters in Bayelsa, Imo and Kogi states will on Saturday (today) elect their new governors.

In the three states, Independent National Electoral Commission announced that 5,169,692 voters collected their permanent voter cards out of the 5,409,438 registered voters in the three states.

In Bayelsa State, data on INEC’s website indicated that there are 1,056,862 registered voters, out of which 1,017,613 collected their PVCs, while 39,249 PVCs remained uncollected.

In Imo State, there are 2,419,922 registered voters, out of which 2,318,919 collected their PVCs, while 101,003 PVCs have not been collected. And in Kogi State, out of the 1,932,654 registered voters, 1,833,160 collected their PVCs, leaving 99,494 PVCs uncollected.

Meanwhile, in Bayelsa and Imo states, incumbent governors, Douye Diri and Hope Uzodimma, are respectively seeking re-election, while 18 candidates are jostling to succeed incumbent Governor Yahaya Bello in Kogi State.

In Imo State, the governor and candidate of the All Progressives Congress is contesting against 17 other candidates, with Samuel Anyanwu of the Peoples Democratic Party, and Athan Achonu of the Labour Party described as the top contenders.

Other candidates include Uchenna Okere of Accord Party; Jack Ogunewe of Action Alliance; Ifeanyi Awulonu of African Action Congress; Otumbadi Okoroma of African Democratic Congress; Steve Nwoga of Action Democratic Party; Anthony Ejiogu of All Progressives Grand Alliance; Chibuike Edoziem of Allied Peoples Movement; Obieze Achilike of Action Peoples Party; and Isaac Iwuanyanwu of Boot Party.

Others are Ben Ofunzeh of New Nigeria Peoples Party; Cole Okwara of National Rescue Movement; Ishiodu Uchechukwu of People’s Redemption Party; Bright Ekwebelem of Social Democratic Party; Chino Opara of Young Progressives Party; and Andy Chibuike of the Zenith Labour Party.

While Uzodimma had expressed confidence that he would win the election based on his performance in the last four years, Anyanwu, Achonu and other contenders boasted respectively that they would defeat the governor, saying he had performed woefully in his first term and did not deserve to be re-elected.

In Bayelsa State, the governor and PDP candidate in the election is also seeking re-election. He is contesting against 15 other candidates, with Timipre Sylva of the APC described as the top contender in the race. Sylva is a former governor of the state and is the immediate past Minister of State for Petroleum Resources under former President Muhammadu Buhari.

Other candidates include Eradiri Udengmobofa of the Labour Party; Oguara Nengimonyo of ADP; Ogege Mercy of APP; Idikio Jones of Accord Party, Bufumoh Alex of AA; Kalango Davies of ADC; Subiri Joseph of APGA; Osharikeni Saturday of APM; and Ben Magbodo of Boot Party.

Others include Azebi Ayabeke of the NNPP; Micah Akeems of NRM; Ozato Erepadei of PRP; Osuluku Binaleyefa of SDP and Simeon Karrioru of ZLP.

While the governor said his performance in the last four years would earn him re-election, the other candidates boasted they would win the election following what they described as the governor’s poor performance.

In Kogi State, the race is said to be between APC’s Usman Ododo, PDP’s Dino Melaye, SDP’s Muri Ajaka, and ADC’s Leke Abejide.

Other candidates are Adejo Okeme of the Labour Party, Fatima Suleiman of the ZLP, Musa Mubarak of the NNPP, Muhammed Umar of Boot Party, Onaji Frank of the APP, Isah Dauda of APM, Ilonah Kingsley of APGA, Elukpo Julius of ADP and Buraimoh Olayinka of Action Alliance.

In the three states, there have been incidences of violence with persons killed and some others injured. This had led to anxiety in the states, with the police and other security agencies assuring voters of their safety in the election.

Punch

Nigerians will no longer be able to place food orders on the Bolt Food app as Bolt is shutting down its food delivery service in the country from December 7, 2023.

The company announced its decision as a move to streamline its resources and maximise its overall efficiency.

Bolt, which currently offers food delivery services in 16 countries and 33 cities across the world, launched Bolt Food in Nigeria in October 2021 after increased demand for food delivery services during the pandemic. Since its launch in the country, Bolt Food claims it has partnered with over 10,000 restaurants, delivered over one million meals, and onboarded 23,000 agents and 12,000 merchants.

When Bolt Food launched, its significant competitors were Jumia Food and Gokada before new competitors like Glovo, Chowdeck, and Buyfood appeared in the $834.7 million Nigerian food delivery market.

“At this time, we have made the difficult decision to discontinue our food delivery operations in Nigeria due to business reasons,” the firm said in a statement.

Food delivery industry faces several challenges, including managing customer expectations, improper food handling, fluctuating market prices, and logistical challenges, despite many Nigerians fancying eating out daily.

The Guardian

Federal Government says it will start charging owners of completed unoccupied houses triple ground rents instead of the single rate normally charged from three months after completion.
Minister of Housing and Urban Development, Ahmed Dangiwa, said this in an interview with journalists during his continuation to site visits of housing projects constructed by the government and its agencies on Friday in Abuja.

The projects inspected are the Suleja (Dikko) Prototype, Public-Private Partnerships Cooperative, Gwagwalada National Housing Programme and Guzape Federal Housing Authority (FHA) under the PPP arrangement.

Dangiwa affirmed that the issue of completed unoccupied properties was prevalent in the FCT and some states of the federation while many citizens were in dire need of accommodation.

“What is important now is that we want to take stock of all those houses, then we will interface with the owners and find out what they want.

“If they want to keep the houses unoccupied, the government will start charging them triple ground rent instead of a single ground rent that we charge.

“That will force them to either put it on rent at whatever amount or they sell them off. Because we cannot keep saying we have a housing deficit when we have a lot of empty houses that are completed and left unoccupied.

“We have charged the department of lands, urban and regional planning in our ministry to take stock of those estates to give the names of the proprietors or the owners of those estates.

“Any estate that stays more than three months unoccupied then we will start charging them triple ground rent. This is what we intend to do,” he said.

On the supervision of projects across the country, the minister said all state controllers would be empowered and given the proper tools and equipment to carry out their functions effectively.

“The second thing is the issue of supervision, we have state controllers in every state of the federation. We want to empower them by giving them the tools they need to supervise any project within their vicinity.

“Many of the state controllers we met with complained that they do not have even the vehicles to move around with some of the tools for supervision and other things.

“So, we have taken note and we are going to ensure that we provide them with all the tools they need and empower them so that they supervise our projects nationwide effectively.

“On the issue of land, we make it so that instead of going to states looking for land the federal ministry may have lands in those locations we just use those lands.

“That is why we are tasking all our state controllers of housing to ensure that they give us the catalogue of all the land that they have, their status and what they are used for,” Dangiwa said.

NAN

Thousands who were sheltering at Gaza City’s hospitals flee as Israel-Hamas war closes in

Thousands of Palestinians sheltering from the Israel-Hamas war at Gaza City’s main hospital fled south Friday after several reported strikes in and around the compound overnight. They joined a growing exodus of people escaping intense urban fighting in the north — including near other hospitals — as Gaza officials said the territory’s death toll surpassed 11,000.

The search for safety across the besieged Gaza Strip has grown desperate as Israel intensified its assault on the territory’s largest city.

The Israeli army says Hamas’ military infrastructure is based amid Gaza City’s hospitals and neighborhoods, and that it has set up its main command center in and under the largest hospital, Shifa — claims the militant group and Shifa staff deny.

Israel has vowed to destroy Hamas after its deadly Oct. 7 surprise incursion, which killed at least 1,200.

More than 100,000 Palestinians have fled south over the past two days, according to Israel, but they still face bombardment and dire conditions. Reported strikes on or near at least four hospitals in northern Gaza overnight underscored the danger for tens of thousands more who had crowded into the facilities, believing they would be safe.

BATTLES AROUND HOSPITALS

Early Friday, at least three strikes over several hours hit the courtyard and the obstetrics department of Shifa Hospital, according to Ashraf al-Qidra, spokesperson at the Health Ministry in Hamas-run Gaza.

A video of the courtyard recorded the sound of incoming fire waking people in makeshift shelters, followed by shouts for an ambulance. In the blood-spattered courtyard, one man writhed, screaming on the ground, his leg apparently severed.

Al-Qidra blamed the attack on Israel, a claim that could not be independently verified. The Israeli army said one strike at Shifa was the result of a misfire by militants targeting its troops nearby.

For weeks, tens of thousands of displaced Palestinians — reaching as many 60,000 this week, according to the Health Ministry — have been sheltering in the Shifa complex.

The overnight strikes triggered a mass exodus of the displaced. About 10 a.m., large numbers packed up their belongings and began walking toward the south, five people who were among those who left told The Associated Press.

Al-Qidra told the Qatar-based satellite news network Al-Jazeera that more than 30,000 displaced people, medical workers and patients remain in the hospital.

Mainly those who could not walk or did not know where to go remained, said Wafaa abu Hajajj, a journalist who arrived in the south after leaving the hospital Friday.

“The strikes were hoping to scare people and it worked. … It became too much,” said 32-year-old Haneen Abu Awda, who had been at Shifa being treated for wounds from an earlier strike on his house.

At the same time, Shifa has been overwhelmed by thousands of wounded, even as it operates with minimal power and medical supplies.

In video released Friday by the Gaza Health Ministry, bodies of limp children are seen on stretchers across blood-stained floors in the hospital, some dead, some barely breathing. Other patients were strewn around the floor, unable to be treated for lack of supplies. One man is seen gasping for air.

The director of Shifa, Mohammed Abu Selmia, said Israel demanded the facility be evacuated, but he said there was nowhere for such a large number of patients to go.

“Where are we going to evacuate them?” he said, speaking to Al Jazeera television.

The Health Ministry said one person had been killed at Shifa and several were wounded. Another strike near the Nasr Medical Center killed two people, according to the ministry. Abu Selmia said at least 25 people were killed when a strike hit a Gaza City school where people were sheltered inside.

The strike on Nasr forced the shutdown of its children’s hospital, the only remaining specialized pediatric care in north Gaza, said World Health Organization spokesperson Margaret Harris. She said it was not known what happened to patients there, including children receiving dialysis and on life support — “things that you cannot possibly evacuate them safely with.”

Military spokesman Richard Hecht said Israel is “aware of the sensitivity” of hospitals and that forces were closing in on them slowly. Israel “does not fire on hospitals,” he said, but if militants are seen firing from them “we will do what we need to do” and kill them.

Israel has produced video that it says is evidence that Hamas uses not only hospitals, but schools and mosques as well, as cover for military activities.

U.N. Secretary-General Antonio Guterres has said on multiple occasions that Hamas uses civilians as “human shields,’’ while stressing that this does not give Israel free rein to target buildings where militants are hiding among civilians. He has pointed to international humanitarian law, which states that protection of civilians and hospitals, schools, and homes is paramount.

CIVILIANS FLEE SOUTH

Tens of thousands of new evacuees from the north, some from Shifa, flowed down Salah al-Din road — the central spine running the length of the Gaza Strip — and reached the central city of Deir al-Balah on Friday. With no fuel for vehicles, the crowds walked for hours as explosions echoed a short distance away. Among them were wounded and older people.

They arrived hungry, exhausted and with a stew of emotions: relief, rage, and despair.

Reem Asant, 50, described seeing bodies on the streets as he and others made their way out of Gaza City, trying to avoid shelling.

“We’re talking about children killed in a hospital,” shouted one man, Abu Yousef. “Hundreds of women killed every day. Houses collapsing on the heads of civilians. … Where are human rights? Where is the United Nations? Where is the United States? Where is the International Criminal Court? Where is the entire world?”

The Israeli military announced an expanded six-hour window Friday for civilians to escape northern Gaza along Salah al-Din, the route used since last weekend. It also announced the opening of a second route, along the coastal road, after an agreement announced by the White House a day earlier.

More than two-thirds of Gaza’s population of 2.3 million have fled their homes since the war began. Israel estimates that more than 850,000 of the 1.1 million people in northern Gaza have left, according to military spokesman Jonathan Conricus.

RISING DEATH TOLLS

More than 11,070 Palestinians, two-thirds of them women and minors, have been killed since the war began, according to the Gaza Health Ministry, which does not differentiate between civilian and militant deaths. Another 2,650 people have been reported missing.

U.S. Secretary of State Antony Blinken said Friday that “far too many” Palestinians have died and suffered. While recent Israeli steps to try to minimize civilian harm are positive, he said, they are not enough.

Assistant Secretary of State Barbara Leaf told U.S. lawmakers this week that it was “very possible” the death toll was even higher than the Gaza Health Ministry’s tally.

At least 1,200 people have been killed in Israel, mainly in the initial Hamas attack, and 41 Israeli soldiers have been killed in Gaza since the ground offensive began, Israeli officials say. The Foreign Ministry had previously estimated the civilian death toll at 1,400, and gave no reason Friday for the revision.

An Israeli official told The Associated Press that the number had been changed after a painstaking weekslong process to identify bodies, many of which were mutilated or burned in the Hamas rampage. The final death toll could still change, according to the official, who spoke on condition of anonymity pending a formal announcement.

Nearly 240 people abducted by Hamas from Israel remain captive.

Palestinian militants have continued to fire rockets into Israel, and an attack on Tel Aviv wounded at least two people Friday, said Yossi Elkabetz, a paramedic with Israel’s rescue services. Hamas claimed credit.

About 250,000 Israelis have been forced to evacuate from communities near Gaza and along the northern border with Lebanon, where Israeli forces and Hezbollah militants have traded fire repeatedly.

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RUSSIAN PERSPECTIVE

Russian victory 'a tragedy' – NATO

Russia’s victory in the conflict with Ukraine would affect NATO’s security as well, the US-led bloc’s secretary-general Jens Stoltenberg told reporters on Friday. NATO will continue to support Kiev with weapons and ammunition to avoid such a “dangerous” outcome, he added. 

Washington and its allies and partners are supporting Ukraine not just because they “agreed” to it at various meetings, but also because “it is in our interests to do so,” Stoltenberg said at a joint press conference with German Defense Minister Boris Pistorius in Berlin. 

“We have to remember and understand that if [Russian] President [Vladimir] Putin wins in Ukraine, it is a tragedy for Ukrainians but it is also dangerous for us,” Stoltenber said, claiming that a Russian triumph would encourage “authoritarian leaders” to use force and “violate international law” to “get what they want.” 

“That will make us more vulnerable,” Stoltenberg said, adding that he was “confident that North America and Europe together will continue to support Ukraine” and that this was the only way to achieve a “negotiated peaceful solution to this conflict.” 

“We know that the stronger Ukraine is on the battlefield, the stronger their hand will be at the negotiating table,” said Stoltenberg. 

His comments came as the Pentagon warned that military aid for Kiev was about to run dry if American lawmakers did not approve a new funding package for Ukraine.

Kiev has repeatedly ruled out any talks with Moscow, demanding a complete withdrawal of Russian troops from all territories Ukraine claims as its own. Ukrainian President Vladimir Zelensky reiterated this demand in an interview with Reuters this week, adding that Kiev would continue the fight even without US aid, if need be. 

Zelensky has denied reports in some media outlets that Ukraine’s Western backers allegedly encouraged Kiev to engage in peace negotiations with Moscow. “This is not going to happen,” he said last week, during a joint press conference with EU Commission President Ursula von der Leyen. 

In October 2022, Zelensky signed a decree banning Ukraine from holding any talks with Russian President Vladimir Putin.

Russia has repeatedly signaled its readiness to engage in negotiations with Kiev but has insisted that such talks should take Moscow’s security interests and the “reality on the ground” into account. In the autumn of 2022, four former Ukrainian territories – including the two Donbass republics – officially joined Russia, following a series of referendums. 

Kiev declared the votes a “sham” and has sought to reclaim control over the four territories, as well as Crimea, which joined Russia in 2014 following another referendum. 

** Western sanctions ‘not so painful’ – Kremlin

Kremlin spokesman Dmitry Peskov said on Friday that the sanctions against Moscow mostly boomeranged on those who imposed them and inspired Russia to develop its own industry.

“Many are beginning to see the light and understand that, firstly, the sanctions backfired on them, and secondly, turned out to be not so painful and pushed us to build up our own potential,” Peskov said at a press briefing.

President Vladimir Putin’s spokesman was answering a question about Thursday’s resolution of the European Parliament, which called for tougher sanctions on Moscow but argued against  confiscating the personal belongings of Russians – such as personal vehicles – because “such over compliance discredits the goal and instrument of sanctions.” 

Earlier this week, Russian Foreign Minister Sergey Lavrov pointed out that EU companies have lost at least €250 billion ($266.6 billion) due to the embargoes put in place over the Ukraine conflict. He said these were “very conservative estimates” and that the true cost of unilateral measures could be even higher.

The decision to cut ties with Russia has made the EU dependent on “expensive American energy” instead, causing an industrial crisis. The “terrorist attacks” on the Nord Stream gas pipelines in September 2022 ended all hopes of restoring the flow of affordable Russian gas to the EU economies, Lavrov said.

“The West decided to destroy the world economy for the sake of teaching Russia a lesson,” Lavrov told a roundtable of Russian ambassadors in Moscow.

For this reason, Lavrov explained, Russia does not expect the sanctions to be lifted any time soon, and has chosen to build new transport corridors and supply chains that will be “beyond the control of malicious influence”from the West.

Deputy Prime Minister Andrey Belousov said last week that the West predicted “a catastrophe comparable to the 1990s” for Russia and was “shocked” when that did not happen. Instead, Russia entered a period of “strengthening sovereignty,” leveraging its education, science, technology, infrastructure and natural resources.

While Russia’s GDP fell by 2.1% in 2022, it has since completely recovered and is on track to grow by 2.8% by the end of 2023, according to the Kremlin. The International Monetary Fund (IMF) estimates the Russian GDP to grow 2.2%, up from its April forecast of 0.7%.

WESTERN PERSPECTIVE

Ukraine sinks two Russian landing boats in Crimea -military

Ukrainian naval drones sank two small Russian landing boats in Crimea, Ukraine's military intelligence agency said on Friday, while troops braced for further Russian assaults in the east, particularly the shattered town of Avdiivka.

Reuters could not independently verify the report of the attack on Vuzka Bay in the west of Crimea, which one Ukrainian military analyst said was a significant strike and loss for Russia.

There was no immediate comment by Russia, which seized and annexed the Crimea peninsula from Ukraine in 2014 and whose Black Sea Fleet is headquartered in the Crimean city of Sevastopol.

An initial report from Ukraine's military intelligence said the two small, amphibious Russian ships had been hit overnight.

A Friday evening update said the attack had been carried out by naval drones. It identified one landing craft as an Akula class vessel, the other a Serna class.

"The results of intelligence conducted on 10th November 2023 near Vuzka Bay in temporarily occupied Crimea show that after an attack by naval drones, two small Russian landing ships have been destroyed," the report said.

"As a consequence of the attack, both vessels went to the bottom, the Akula straight away and the Serna after attempts to save it."

The Ukrainian military said the vessels were crewed, and loaded with armoured vehicles.

"Boats like this are quite a significant loss ...," Andriy Ryzhenko, military analyst and reserve officer, told Radio NV.

"They allowed for the transport of a tactical landing force and equipment relatively inconspicuously."

President Volodymyr Zelenskiy says attacks on naval targets have dented Moscow's military strength in the area. Ukraine says some Russian vessels have left Sevastopol.

AVDIIVKA UNDER CONSTANT ATTACK

In eastern Ukraine, officials in Avdiivka, under Russian fire since mid-October, expected a new attempt to advance on the town once the ground dries from several days of heavy rain.

"Things are just as hot as they always were. The enemy is firing round the clock within the city and around our positions," Vitaliy Barabash, head of Avdiivka's military administration, told public broadcaster Suspilne.

Barabash said greater numbers of 1,500 remaining residents in what was once a city of 32,000 were preparing to evacuate. Russian forces had begun using drones to spot and fire on smoke from makeshift stoves as the weather turned colder, he said.

Military analyst Serhiy Zgurets, writing on the website of Espreso TV, said Russian forces sought to exploit Ukraine's focus on Avdiivka by attempting to retake areas they had lost near Bakhmut to the northeast. Russian forces seized Bakhmut in May, but Ukrainian troops have since retaken nearby villages.

Russia began its full-scale invasion of Ukraine in February 2022. Ukraine began a counteroffensive in the south and east in early June, but has encountered strong resistance.

Russia's Defence Minister said early on Saturday its anti-aircraft units had downed Ukrainian drones over Moscow Region and near Smolensk, near the border with Belarus.

Unofficial Russian telegram channel Baza reported a drone had been downed near a machine plant in Kolomna, 100 km (60 miles) southeast of Moscow and posted a picture of what it said was a fire at an explosives plant in Kotovsk, further southeast.

Reuters could not establish if the incidents reported by Baza were related to those from the Ministry of Defence and could not independently verify any of the reports.

• The man was working through the night to inspect machine in South Korea
• He was apparently pushed against a conveyer belt and crushed by the robot

A man was crushed to death by a robot in South Korea after it failed to differentiate him from a box of vegetables.

The victim, a robotics company worker in his 40s, was inspecting the machine's  sensor at a distribution centre for agricultural produce in South Gyeongsang in the early hours of Wednesday.

The machine, which was lifting boxes of peppers onto a pallet, grabbed the man with its arm and pushed him against the conveyer belt, crushing his face and chest.

The robot appears to have malfunctioned and identified the man as a box, police sources said.

The victim was transferred to the hospital but died later, according to the South Korean Yonhap news agency.

Police are now preparing to launch an investigation into the site's safety managers for possible negligence in duties. 

An official from the Donggoseong Export Agricultural Complex, which owns the plant, called for a 'precise and safe' system to be established in a statement after the incident. 

The victim had reportedly filled in to conduct tests originally planned for November 6. 

They were pushed back two days due to reported problems with the robot's sensor. 

In March, a South Korean man in his 50s suffered serious injuries after getting trapped by a robot while working at an automobile parts manufacturing plant.

And last July, footage emerged of a chess-playing android breaking a child's finger during a match in Russia.

The robot grabbed the seven-year-old boy's finger at the Moscow Open because it was confused by his quick movements, Russian media outlets reported.

Sergey Lazarev, vice-president of the Russian Chess Federation, said the child had violated 'certain safety rules' by making a move too soon. 

Atkeson, a robotics expert at Carnegie Mellon University, told MailOnline: 'Robots have limited sensing and thus limited awareness of what is going on around them.

'I suspect the chess robot did not have ears, and that its vision system was blind to anything other than chess boards and pieces.'

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“Gaslighting," or the experience of being manipulated into doubting your feelings and perceptions of reality, can happen to anyone.

This behavior is often used to gain power and control in relationships. Being on the receiving end of it can be damaging to your self-esteem, and can even lead to anxiety or depression.

As a Harvard-trained psychologist who specializes in trauma and relationships, I've observed this firsthand. If someone uses any of these nine phrases, they may be gaslighting you:

1. 'You're being crazy.'

Gaslighters will try to manipulate you into questioning your sanity. Making direct comments that undermine your perspective or rationality is a common tactic. 

How to respond:

"Please don't question my ability to think clearly."

"Even if we don't agree, this is what the reality looks like to me."

2. 'You're overreacting.'

By accusing you of being dramatic, the gaslighter is attempting to dismiss your concerns as irrational and unfounded.

How to respond:

"Whether or not you agree with me, this is how I feel right now."

"I would appreciate it if you didn't judge my feelings. They are mine and not up for debate."

3. 'I was just joking!'

Gaslighters often downplay their mean-spirited comments or criticism. This can cause you to wonder if you're being overly sensitive, even when you're not.

How to respond:

"That comment might have been funny to you, but it hurt my feelings."

"It didn't seem to me like you were joking, and I'd appreciate it if you didn't talk to me that way."

4. 'You made me do it.'

When something doesn't go as they had planned, gaslighters will often try to avoid taking responsibility by shifting any criticism and blame onto you.

How to respond:

"I actually can't make you do anything."

"Your behavior is a reflection of your choices, not mine."

5. 'If you loved me, you'd let me do what I want.'

When you try to set boundaries with a gaslighter, they may feel wronged and try make you feel guilty by saying you don't care about them.

How to respond:

"My boundaries are a reflection of my values and how I choose to live my life."

"I don't feel comfortable doing this. I am telling, not asking, you to respect my boundaries."

6. 'I'm only telling you this because I love you.'

Gaslighters justify making rude — sometimes abusive — comments by saying they come from a place of love. This can make it harder for you to trust your gut feelings and set healthy boundaries.

How to respond:

"I appreciate that you love me, but I'm not okay with the way you're talking to me."

"That's not how I want to be shown love."

7. 'This is all your fault.'

A gaslighter may try to accuse you of harmful actions even if there's clear evidence that they're engaging in similar behaviors.

How to respond:

"I'm sure that I contribute to our relationship struggles in some ways, but so do you. We both have to be willing to change if we want to make this better."

"I'm willing to take responsibility for my role in this, but I'm not taking responsibility for yours."

8. 'Everyone agrees with me — you're just difficult.'

By falsely aligning themselves with others, gaslighters may try to manipulate you into believing that you need them. Their goal is to make you think you're alone and that no one else will put up with you.

How to respond:

"I would appreciate it if you speak for yourself, and not for other people."

"I hear that you find me difficult. Let's stay focused on that."

9. 'The real problem is…'

When they're called out, gaslighters may try to divert attention away from themselves. This makes it easier to stay focused on what's wrong with someone or something else.

How to respond:

"Please don't change the subject."

"It seems like you don't want to acknowledge how you're contributing to the problem."

** Cortney S. Warren, is a board-certified psychologist and author of "Letting Go of Your Ex." 

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