At the foundation of all business is connecting with people. Whether it's with a journalist, an investor, a potential partner or anyone else. The best way to connect with people is through an introduction. 

You can always cold call someone but having a trusted mutual connection introduce you will always be more effective. We already talked about how to ask for an intro and how to make one, but what should you do once you get that email from a friend introducing you to someone?

Here are the first three things you should do:

Express gratitude for the intro

By now, I have come to the conclusion that common sense and common decency are not so common, unfortunately. 

As soon as someone, let's call that person David introduces you to someone else, let's call that person Jennifer, thanks David for the introduction, but it goes beyond that.

Let me tell you a short story. A friend of mine came to visit Tel Aviv from New York. He asked me to make some introductions, which I of course was happy to do.

Over the next few days, I started seeing pictures on my friend's feed from all the meetings he had, all a result of my introductions.

What they should have done is thanked me after every such meeting to let me know my intro led to that meeting and how much they enjoyed it.

Gratitude goes a long way and when someone goes out of their way to help you by means of an introduction, don't forget to thank them.

Includes some praise for the person introducing

Again, somewhat obvious and perhaps trivial, but rarely is this done right.

That initial email response after you received the introduction from David, your response should not be something like "Thanks David and hey Jennifer. Let's connect."

Instead try something like "David, you're the best. You make the best intros. Hey Jennifer, I've heard wonderful things. Would love to jump on a call or grab coffee. Would that work for you and if so, when is best?"

Let's dissect that response.

First of all, you praised David, which both makes you look good to Jennifer but it also makes David want to make more introductions for you.

Another important component to that email is that you don't leave it abstract and you have a specific ask, to connect further.

You also make it easier for Jennifer to respond by asking her if she wants to meet and when.

People don't have time to answer long emails so keep it short, to the point and end with a specific question that is simple to answer.

Ask for a convenient time and send a calendar invite

This is a major pet peeve of mine. If we are talking about a scenario in which Jennifer asked to be introduced to you, she should be the one to offer flexibility on when you'll meet and as trivial as it sounds, she should be the one sending the calendar invite.

Alternatively, if you ask David to introduce you to Jennifer because you want to pick her brain or pitch her on something, then you should offer the flexibility and you should send the invite.

Again, this might sound trivial, but sometimes a nice gesture could go a long way and vice versa. If you asked to meet me and then you put me to work by asking me to set up a calendar event, it just feels a bit strange.

The bottom line is, without introductions in business, no progress will be made, but even if someone does introduce you to a potential client, your response to that email could make or break a deal depending on how you reply.

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